The #1 Distortion I'm Seeing in 75% of My Clients Right Now
And the 3-Step Healing Solution That Fixes It
Ever since the Fall Equinox last month, I keep seeing the same distortion show up in nearly every client session.
Iâm now even checking for, and finding, these in my own system.
This morning, I did a session for my cat Nova, and sure enough, he had two of this distortion type running in his system too.
While I have a set list of 106 factors I check for in every meta-heal session, this is one of those that never really showed up much in the past.
Yet, now itâs showing up nearly every session. Likely, because this is what weâre now collectively facing and clearing creation-wide.
Dissonance Is the New Black
It almost feels like a fashion statement, or a trendy fad. Iâm literally seeing it everywhere.
Youâve likely heard of âcognitive dissonance,â when your mind struggles to hold two opposing truths or experiences simultaneously.
Well, the distortion Iâm seeing come up again and again is structural dissonance â what we call a paradox.
A paradox in the body-field represents two conflicting instructions running at once inside your energetic and biological system.
Your system attempts to run both, and then freezes, because it literally tries to go in two opposing directions at once.
Thatâs why paradox, or structural dissonance, can show up as:
Exhaustion that rest canât fix
Confusion that logic canât clear
That Catch 22 or double-bind you canât get out of
That âdamned if I do, damned if I donâtâ feeling
đ Before we continue - If you find this post helpful, please restack and share it with your friends or audience. This strengthens the field + helps us all grow together. đ
How Paradox Drains Your Power
When paradox is active, your system wages an invisible war with itself.
Unfortunately, paradox often isnât loud. Until itâs called out, the two conflicting instruction sets donât seem at odds with each other.
I sometimes see it hidden in a clientâs heal intention wish list. You see it in phrases like:
I want an abundant life so I can travel the world // Give me protection so I feel safe when I leave my house.
I want a deliciously passionate partner whoâs resourced, emotionally available, and does their work // I want to stop blocking myself, I can tell Iâm afraid to be visible, to really be out there, and I feel like if people really get to know me they wonât like me.
These are not rare. I see something like this in nearly every client intention list, lately.
As I track and release more and more of these for me and my clients, Iâm seeing how much life force and energy gets freed up.
And, conversely, how much energy maintaining these paradoxes requires.
For example, think about your DNA.
Itâs literally just instruction sets that tell your cells what to do and how to function.
Imagine if you had one set of DNA instructing a group of cells that they are kidney cells of a human beingâŠ
And then you had another set of DNA in that same group of cells instructing them that they are brain cells of a salamander.
The cells would be confused right? If they follow one instruction, they violate the other. And so they do nothing.
Or they exhaust themselves running conflicting programs and getting nowhere.
Hereâs what happens when paradox stays active for too long:
Your system freezes. You canât move clearly in any direction. Every choice feels loaded.
You burn energy just maintaining the split. Fatigue, anxiety, and confusion follow, because your system is stuck running two operating systems at once.
You stop trusting your own signal. Your nervous system starts sending static. You second-guess intuition, instincts, even joy.
You mute your own expansion. Your system doesnât know which way to go. So spiritual practice stops working. Manifestations stall. You feel âoff,â but canât name why.
The paradox boots breakthroughs. Even when you receive deep healing, the paradox rejects it. Or it loops in your field and canât land, because your body canât apply its instruction set without the paradox activating and canceling everything out.
The paradox doesnât just block your path; it divides your power supply.
Every ounce of clarity leaks into managing the internal war instead of creating life.
This is why so many brilliant, wise and experienced people will reach that baffling moment where what used to work⊠suddenly doesnât anymore.
I call it âevolutionary pressure.â
When our new instruction set weâre attempting to land gets strong enough, it can trigger a paradox against the existing instruction set that was limiting us.
And suddenly our system freezes. Our life hits the brakes. And weâre left befuddled and whiplashed, wondering WTAF. đ€Ż
Itâs not resistance. Itâs not self-sabotage.
Itâs not mindset or even burnout.
Itâs the body trying to obey two masters at once.
And itâs exhausting.
How Many Paradoxes Do You Have Right Now?
What Iâm seeing is that most people are carrying three to seven active paradoxes at once. This is limited to my own experience with my own clients, self and loved ones.
But with all the dissonance and polarization happening on the global stage, I am fairly confident we are facing paradox as a collective.
Paradoxes sound like this:
âI want love.â // âLove will hurt me.â
âI want to be visible.â // âVisibility is dangerous.â
âI want ease.â // âEase means Iâm not doing enough.â
âI want to heal.â // âIâm emotionally invested in my story, itâs my identity now.â
Each one burns energy to sustain two truths that canât coexist.
Theyâre rarely conscious. Most are inherited, absorbed through trauma, lineage, or limitation.
And while they sound familiar or obvious when we name them like I did above⊠you donât experience them that way in your body and life.
So how to identify a paradox?
Signs a Paradox Is Running in Your System
Confusion about what you want.
Chronic fatigue or restless energy that wonât settle.
Inconsistent results â things go okay for a time and suddenly all the same stuff doesnât work anymore.
A deep desire you keep spinning on, yet somehow things donât proceed or evolve.
Anxiety spins or thought spirals that wonât quit or resolve.
Endless overthinking or âprocessingâ loops.
Burnout that persists, no matter how much healing or rest you engage.
The sense that no modality truly lands, even if it used to.
Feeling âsplitâ inside â even when everything looks calm on the surface.
If youâve used all your tools, done all the work, invited the energy to move⊠and things still feel stuck, itâs probably not resistance. Itâs paradox.
The Benefits of Resolving Paradox & Structural Dissonance
When paradox dissolves, itâs like youâve had your foot on the gas this whole time⊠and suddenly someone shifted your car into drive.
Here are some of the things Iâve heard clients say after we cleared a few paradoxes for them:
âEverything feels calmer. I feel at peace in a way I couldnât before.â
âI feel resolved. Like I donât know what to do, but my system isnât looping on the unknown. I feel like I trust whatâs to come⊠and I havenât felt like that in forever.â
âI didnât realize I was holding so much tension! Things feel so much lighter already.â
âWow itâs like I suddenly got out of my own way. I donât know why it felt so hard before. But now Iâm writing every day and I feel motivation and enthusiasm instead of doom and gloom!â
This is what Iâm finding in my own experience as well. When I started this Substack a little over a month ago, I was deep in burnout and writing from that place.
I wanted me and everyone I knew to be able to escape survival mode and struggle.
And, fascinatingly, when I discovered and released several paradoxes in my own system, itâs like the heaviness just evaporated.
I had more energy. I felt more hopeful and confident about what Iâm choosing to build and create for my life.
Things that felt like impossible Catch-22s literally resolved themselves immediately, and I was shocked to find that nothing actually felt impossible.
Suddenly more easy answers arrived, and I quickly found a system to organize me. My productivity has skyrocketed I swear 100-fold.
And not because Iâm working more hours. Iâm working less.
Finally, after spinning my wheels for months, everything I do is returning more results⊠where beforehand it felt that no matter what I did, nothing budged.
The only difference: I donât have 5 or so paradoxes eating up all my energy and spinning me into an anxiety spiral every seven minutes.
My Simple 3-Step Process to Collapse Any Paradox & End Structural Dissonance
So far, Iâve shown you why paradox forms, how it drains your power, and what shifts when you resolve it.
Below, for paid subscribers, youâll discover:
The exact 3-step process I use to collapse paradox and restore coherence in minutes
A checklist of the Top 30 Paradoxes Iâve identified so far, to help you name and release your active paradoxes with clarity and ease
A list of Top 50 Truths you can select from as singular instruction you replace your paradox with, organized by Life Area
This is the same quick and simple fix my clients and I use now, for rapid, BIG results: to recover more energy, reignite intuition, and experience spontaneous resolution in patterns that havenât budged for years.
This process changed the game for me. If youâre ready for your own breakthroughâŠ